Doing’s – Reciprocates or is it Fate

When I look back and see the things I have done to people and things that I had gone through, I've always seen the boomerang effect. I always used to think that nothing good or bad would happen to me in future if I am the cause of someone’s love or hatred, but my thoughts have changed over the last 5 years.

It all started with my second girlfriend (Name - B) in the year 2006. I am not the kind of person who’d betray someone’s trust and believe me I have only betrayed a person only once in my life. I saw her for the first time at a training session of my first job in August of 2006. I had a girlfriend (Name – A) back then, my first love (well not love, it was attraction) and that was the day when I stopped calling or texting A. I was so selfish that I didn’t even bother to answer A’s calls and reply to her texts. At that time I didn’t think of anyone and went so crazy for B that I somehow started talking to her friends to know her and to start talking to her.

To my amusement I came to know that B had a boyfriend and they were in a 5 year relationship. I didn’t lose hope because I was confident that one fine day I will marry her. Long story short, it took me more than a year to propose her and 2 more months for her Yes and a few months to get rid of her asshole boyfriend (with total Non-Violence). We both were in love for almost 4 years and enjoyed this time to the fullest. Our families knew about us and hence we were supposed to get married as well, however the A’s Boomerang was yet to hit me and it did in 2010. I had made a few mistakes in my relationship with B, which can never be undone and she left me in December 2010. She didn’t give me a single chance to mend my mistakes and neither has she forgiven me till date. I don’t want her back but I need her forgiveness and want to tell her that she is a Quitter. The time after she left me is the worst phase of my life.

What I still haven’t understood is; did I get what I deserved? Or B leaving me was the boomerang that hit me after what I did to A? Or is it written in the book of my life. The strange part is, I don’t know where A is and is she fine and happy; obviously she must be as she never did betray me. I always wish for her wellbeing and happiness.

The thing with B is a bit strange, she left her boyfriend for me and then left me and found her new love with whom she is getting married this year. She has never been betrayed and has always left someone for someone else. So when will she get hit by that Boomerang? And if she doesn’t get hit, then our life goes as per what’s written in the book of our life. Not that I want something bad to happen to her, God bless her and her life partner. But my question is still un-answered.

Maybe I’ve not seen much in life to understand it and maybe I have to travel a very long road to unveil this mystery.

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